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Top 11 Sweet and Intimate Ways to Show How Much You Care
« on: July 16, 2015, 09:38:39 pm »
Saying “I love you” is no longer enough. We need more
action and less talk when it comes to professing deep
emotions. Here are 11 easy ways to do it.
In today’s world, saying something is no longer good
enough, especially if you’ve said it countless times before.
As that cheesy Extreme song goes, “More than words to
show you feel, that your love for me is real.”
Let me tell you a little tale that took place several years
ago. I’m the kind of person who constantly quips “I love
you” for everything and anything. I end messages with
XOXO and I say “I love you” to almost anyone I come
into contact with. Everyone from my fiancé to my regular
delivery lady has been at the receiving end of my “I love
you” spiels.
My fiancé isn’t the jealous type, but all my “I love you”
professions made him think that I didn’t truly mean it
every time I said it to him. I, on the other hand, constantly
berated him for always leaving me hanging and for not
saying it enough.
One day, he took me by the hand, looked me in the eye
and said, “Honey, if you overuse it, it loses its meaning.”
He then went into this whole thing about supply and demand
that left me reeling, and although I scoffed at him, it got
me thinking long and hard about the true meaning of “I
love you.” That’s when I decided that saying it wasn’t
going to cut it, and I had to show it. That’s just what I
did and our relationship is now stronger than ever.
Just like my fiancé said, sometimes, saying the words
doesn’t mean much. People make empty promises all the
time. People say things that they don’t mean. People lie
and people exaggerate. Nowadays you have to offer hard-
hitting proof that you really care about the one you love.
We all know that no matter how vehemently you deny it
because it’s childish, pointless or a complete waste of time,
deep down inside, you also want your partner to prove just
how much they love you. How about getting the ball rolling
and showing your appreciation to them first?
Mahatma Gandhi once said, “Be the change that you wish
to see in the world.” He probably meant standing up
against colonial and economic oppression, but there’s no
reason why you can’t use his saying in this context.
How to show your love with more than just words
Love isn’t just one grand gesture that gets you high for
days on end. It’s the little, seemingly inconsequential things
that build up and create a loving atmosphere. If you want
to show your partner how much you love them and
appreciate having them in your life, here are 11 ways you
can do that.
#1 Touch more. Don’t turn your nose up at public displays
of affection. Sometimes, a little PDA is all that your lover
needs to know for sure that you love them. Holding hands,
slinging your arm around them, kissing and hugging are all
wonderful expressions of love. Don’t just save it for public
excursions, either. The sweetest forms of affection take place
behind closed doors, so don’t be shy to get touchy feely
with your partner.
#2 Laugh and play. Don’t be serious and uptight all the
time. Sure, it may just be who you are, but there’s no
reason why you should forgo laughing and playing with your
partner on a regular basis. The whole point of being in a
relationship is to be able to do silly things together and be
as expressive as you want.
Playtime is very important, and I don’t just mean between
the sheets. Turn everyday chores into something fun. You
could play hide and seek at the grocery store, tag team on
cleaning days and get into irrelevant yet super fun tickle
fights. It doesn’t matter what you categorize as fun, but so
long as you can do it and make your partner smile in the
process, your job is done. Remember that you’re never too
“adult” to indulge in playtime with your lover.
#3 Give gifts. Everyone loves gifts, and your partner is
no different. You don’t have to head out to Tiffany’s and
overpay for bling bling, although that won’t hurt one bit.
But you can also spend a dollar on the gift, so long as
it’s meaningful.
Most of the time, the sweetest gifts are the ones that cost
nothing, so if you have the time to make something with
your own two hands, go for it. Whether it’s a pressed
flower bookmark or a playlist of your favorite tunes, it’s
really the thought that counts. You can also give your lover
experiences like a holiday, scuba diving course, power boat
license, or anything else that you think they’d enjoy.
#4 Send love notes. Instead of verbally expressing your
love, put it down on paper, or e-paper for that matter.
From post-its to memes, there are countless ways for you
to show your appreciation in love. I, for one, always leave
little surprise notes in my fiancé’s suitcase every time he
has to go off on a business trip.
You’ll be surprised at just how meaningful these little
scraps of paper can be to someone who is homesick and
missing their lover. It reminds them that no matter how far
away they are, they have someone waiting for them at
home .
#5 Pay attention. Another way to show your appreciation
in love is to always pay attention to what they say and
do. Some people are less expressive than others, and if
your sweetheart is like this, you have to learn to read
between the lines .
They may not always show and express just how stressed,
tired or upset they are, so it’s your job to figure it out.
For example, I had no idea just how much pressure my
fiancé was under at work, until his colleague blabbed it to
me when I ran into him at a café. It hit me hard, and I
felt so guilty for not paying attention to the little signs
that my lover was sending out on a daily basis. I learned
to focus, and I can confidently say that listening and paying
attention are very important when it comes to showing
appreciation in love.
#6 Give thanks. Show appreciation to your lover by being
grateful, and be sure that you verbalize it every time. Even
the little things deserve recognition. From making dinner to
taking out the trash, be thankful that your partner does
these things, not because it’s expected of them, but because
they want to do it.
#7 Plan surprises. Ah, the power of surprises. Everyone
loves a good surprise, so why not make the effort to plan
a little something for your sweetheart? From the big stuff
like organizing a getaway, to surprising them with dinner
reservations at their favorite ribs joint, make the effort to
be lovingly adorable.
Even the simple stuff counts as a surprise. Stuff like
setting up a candlelit bubble bath for your girlfriend after
she gets home from a long day at work to treating your
husband to a s*xy oil massage, don’t underestimate the
power of these surprise gestures.
#8 Give your time. You can also show appreciation in love
by giving your time to your loved one. Let them know how
important they are by setting aside all distractions the next
time you spend quality time together. Put your phone away,
and turn off all your little gadgets. Make it all about the
two of you, and indulge in endless conversations about
anything that tickles your fancy.
My fiancé and I practice “nothing night” on a regular
basis. We basically make sure that there’s nothing around to
distract us from one another. We just shut the world out
and sit alone at home chatting, laughing and just reveling in
being together. Although our schedule isn’t set it stone, we
make it a point to do this every so often to intimately
reconnect.
#9 Give praise. Another way to show appreciation is to
give praise. Positivity is extremely important in a
relationship, and one way to project this is to let your
lover know just how great they are. Praise your
boyfriend’s cooking, tell your wife she looks stunning,
whisper to your lover how great they smell and so on.
There are myriad ways that you can praise someone, so be
sure to do it often.
#10 Take care of things. Show your partner how much you
appreciate them by taking care of things. I don’t mean it
in a Scarface sort of way, where you shower their enemies
with **** and AK-47 them to death. I mean helping them
take a load off their shoulders. Do something nice and
meaningful for your partner, especially when they’re feeling
down or stressed out.
Little gestures like washing their car, grooming the dog,
putting the kids to bed, grabbing takeout on the way home
and other little everyday gestures will be sure to please
them. The less they have to worry about, the more they
will know just how much you love them.
#11 Change for the better. One of the best ways to prove
your love is to be a better person for your partner. I
know that people always preach about never changing for
anyone, but to be honest, there’s nothing wrong with
making a change for the better.
Stop being so grumpy, quit smoking, come home early from
work more often, and plan more family trips. Improving
your joint lives will not be lost on your partner, and you
can bet your bottom dollar that this is the ultimate form of
showing them your appreciation.
Show your parents, kids, friends, relatives, neighbors,
teachers, cleaning lady and everyone else who plays a part
in your life how much they mean to you. The same way
you would respond well to praise and meaningful gestures
of love, they will too. Make it your mission to touch the
lives of those around you, and show appreciation in love
today.
   
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