Men do a lot of things to try and attract
women. Some of them work, and well,
some of them crash and burn. The problem
is that most men really have no idea what
women find attractive about men. This is
what leads them to shooting in the dark and
hoping for the best.
To really get your attraction levels soaring
you have to know what women actually find
attractive about men, all the time, not some
time. Take the guess work out of attraction.
1. Dominance – Women absolute love
dominance in a man. Now this doesn’t
mean you walk around like the best thing
since sliced bread and chain your woman to
the stove, but it does mean you are in
control. You take control, you command
control and your control is incredibly
attractive to females.
2. Confidence – Similar to dominance,
confidence will make women swoon over
you. They adore the alpha male that stands
in front of the line. You can’t be the little
puppy that just falls in line. Be sure and
proud of who you are, confidence in
yourself and what you do is what will reel
women in like the catch of the day.
3. Relax – Women really like it when you
seem calm and relaxed. Now this doesn’t
mean you need to pop a Valium before
talking to a woman but it does mean you
need to take a few deep breaths and just
cool it. When you appear relaxed women
will take notice at how cool calm and
collected you are.
4. Hygiene – An incredibly important and
yet overlooked part of attracting women is
hygiene. Yes, appearances are important,
they are what shows the world how you
care for yourself. Poor hygiene shows that
you don’t respect yourself and that DOES
NOT attract women. It’s also important
because I don’t know a single time when
two people met eyes across a crowded room
and said “Wow he looks smart.”
5. Be Fun – When you are the “life of the
party” everyone INCLUDING women want
to be around you. They see fun people and
automatically assume they will have fun
being around them. Now being fun can be
anything from being a social butterfly to
always having a good time no matter where
you go. No matter which suits you BE FUN
and women will respond.
6. Be Positive – Being happy will really
attract great attention. No one wants to
hang out with a gloomy Gus, so if you’re
moping around you are not going to attract
women, in fact it will be the antithesis of
attraction. You will push people away. You
will find them turning and walking the
opposite direction rather than engaging
you.
7. Be Generous – Being giving is a good way
to get female attention and it will be very
positive attention. This doesn’t mean kill
your bank account trying to be the cool guy
that gives everything anyone asks for, but it
does mean you shouldn’t shy away from
offering drinks, food or something that will
help them at that moment. Giving will make
you appear to be the care taker and women
love when men take care of them.
8. Be Chivalrous – As much as people say
“Chivalry is dead” it doesn’t mean it can’t be
revived. And trust me women will eat it up
like the last box of Chunk Munky ice cream.
Open doors for them, pull chairs out and be
all around a knight in shining armor.
Chivalry is NOT dead and it will win women
over time and time again.
9. Be Spontaneous – Spontaneity shows
excitement and women don’t want to be a
part of a humdrum life. Women love
spontaneous acts of passion and romance.
They love it when they are surprised and
when you keep things interesting no
woman will be able to resist.
10. Show Commitment – Before you freak
out and have a heart attack this doesn’t
mean you should get down on one knee
and ask the girl to marry you. It just means
you need to show her you are capable of
commitment and you don’t shy away from
it like most men. Women love when men
can commit and showing her you can, will
lock in your position at the top of her list.