Life is short. So when you're out on the
town meeting new women, no point in
wasting time.
How can you tell which ladies really welcome
seduction? What clues do they give off?
Here's a guide to the things they say and do
that mean they like you.
She makes eye contact: If you haven't met
yet but catch her looking at you then
glancing away, then checking back to see if
you're still looking at her ... this is a sign,
gentlemen! Even better: She keeps you in
her keen peripheral vision (8 to 4 o'clock) or
dispatches her friends to covertly track your
moves.
She smiles, tells you her name and starts
throwing off physical signals:Good signs
are that she's ruffling her feathers: hair
fluffing, twirling, extra giggling, strutting or
wiggling around. And think you're so sly
sneaking a peak at her cleavage? Dummy -
she was letting you look. Meanwhile, is she
politely shooing away people who drift in to
interrupt? That's fantastic! She's trying to
keep the party to two.
She searches for commonalities: Any.
Thing. At. All. Favourite sweets you had as a
kid, water sports, late-night sitcoms. And if
you really seem to have nothing in common?
She says, "Wow! I've always wanted to try
that", regardless of whether you're going on
about shark-cage diving. But if she frowns
at you blankly, clearly having no clue what
you're talking about, move on.
She touches you: That may mean she
touches your shoulder when she leans in to
talk or gives you a friendly jab in the ribs.
Subtly test waters by letting your knee rest
on hers. She lets it stay there? Score! If she's
taking great pains not to let any part of her
body linger near yours or if she recoils
abruptly at your touch, even by accident,
move on!
She's taking the interaction to another
levelby a) clarifying that she's talking about
an ex-boyfriend, not a current one, when
she says "we", b) asking open-ended
questions about you that require long
answers, and c) dissuading you from leaving
and going to the next party.